3 little Miracles

3 little Miracles

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Comments on Comments

I hate to even be posting something like this, because so many of my readers are very sweet and leave comments that encourage and uplift.  HOWEVER, even though I feel NO NEED to justify myself, someone who isn't even brave enough to have their blog ID open for me commenting back to them in private, left some very mean and RUDE comments on my post yesterday for Jessica's Tuesday's List and I want to clarify a few things.  I do understand that some people have their blogs private because their blog is a way of communicating with their family and friends and it truly is private, but that doesn't give anyone the invitation to go around being malicious to other bloggers just because the can HIDE behind their privacy.  In my short time in the blogging world I have seen it to many times, where some individuals just seem to be bent on going around making ugly comments on others blogs, making judgments, and spreading gossip.  Just last week someone posted a comment on one of my posts that had NOTHING to do with the post and was total gossip about another blogger that I don't even follow (I do now because I have found her to be very sweet).  To say the least this gossip was removed from my blog and the ugly comment made yesterday to me was also removed.  Sadly from now on all comments left on my blog will have to be approved before they are posted, because I don't want my readers to be affected by someone else who chooses not to be constructive and act like an adult.

FIRST, I have a statement right above the section someone would comment on a post and this is what is says. "Thank you so much for visiting my little jewel box of a blog, this sight holds my personal thoughts,feelings, activities with 2 little Boys, and design projects. Your comments are welcome, but I ask that you keep it clean and if its going to be mean, then keep it to yourself ;-)".  As far as I know I am not holding a gun to anyone's head to read my blog, so if you don't like what you read or see, then STOP READING.  Don't leave me nasty, elementary school comments calling me names and using fowl language like you don't own a dictionary and can't use adult words of conversation.

SECOND, As for telling me to "GET A CLUE" because my blog is called 2 little Boys and it's decorated in pink and green. My boys don't do guest posts on my blog, my husband doesn't hang out on my blog, I WRITE ON MY BLOG.  My blog is a place for ME to write about my life in a house full of boys, I didn't stop loving girlie things just because God blessed me with a wonderful MoG and 2 little Boys.  SO, again if you don't like my blog and how it is decorated, then go someplace else that you do.

THIRD,  as for you calling me selfish and another name that I won't re-type on here because I didn't wish for WORLD PEACE and I didn't wish for the end of WORLD HUNGER on my post yesterday for Jessica's Tuesday List-Wish List activity, in case you didn't notice I am not a beauty queen trying to impress a bunch of people so I can win a contest (clarification, I am sure SOME beauty queens mean what they say, but I am also sure a bunch more are coached to say the politically correct thing).  Tuesday List, just like Show us Your Life  from Kelly's Korner, and Wish List Wednesday, and other such activities are for FUN.  AND if you had read that post to the bottom you would have seen this

But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:19
These things are just fun wishes, except for #1, I trust that God will provide for all of our needs and anything else is just the bonus of life for my family and I to enjoy for a time.

Those who know me and those who aren't judging me JUST UPON a frivolous blog activity, know that I have a heart for the suffering in the world, and I pray often for what is happening in our nation and around the world (some blog activities can be more serious like  Kelly's Korner is going two events Mar 12 - Favorite Charities and Mar 19 - Share your mission trip and Love from Texas is going to have one on March 9th about our Bucket List - things you want to get around to doing in your lifetime).   .  However, I choose to do my part for the needs of the world by taking action and not talking or writing about it.  The way I try to be a part of the Father's compassionate arm of love to others is something I try to do without saying "Hay look what I am doing".  So don't judge how I feel about war and hunger based upon some FUN LIST of wishes that I KNOW aren't important (except for my wish for  healthy pregnancy), but just things that will pass away when I am standing before the Lord.  Furthermore I also know from reading the Father's words that although these things hurt our hearts to see happening, they are also a part of end times.  God's word says 

When you hear of wars and revolutions, do not be frightened. These things must happen first, but the end will not come right away. 
(Luke 21:9)

Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great signs from heaven.  
(Luke 21:10-11)

SO again I say if you don't like reading my blog, you don't like my opinion, and you don't like the look of my blog, THEN DON"T READ and CERTAINLY DON"T leave nasty hurtful comments on my page.

Thank you and sorry that this is necessary but I HAD to get this out because it was really bothering me that someone would be so unkind.

9 comments:

  1. WOW! I have not been on the bad side of commenting yet - but this post seems to cover it all -- the blogsphere should be a place for women to life each other up instead of tear each other down.

    I hope you have a great week!

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  2. Good heavens! I am so sorry people were mean to you. I don't know why people get on here and do stuff like that. I hope you have a better day today:)

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  3. Have you ever noticed the happier you are the more it brings out the meaner side of some people...I hate that you were basically verbally attacked. Some people take everything so seriously...the world is serious enough and we all deal with it everyday...My blog is mine to do with as I choose just like yours is only yours...its almost the last place you can be yourself...don't let one jerk get you down..I hope you have a great day..

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  4. Sorry this has happened to you. Just remember all of the positive comments and all of us who love you and support you!

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  5. Amen, sister! I love you, and I'm sorry you had to deal with someone's childish antics.

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  6. Sorry you had to deal with that. Don't let them get to you. You are wounderful!!! Hope you have a great week.

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  7. I am sorry that other's have made you feel bad! It's good to just get all that out!! Don't feel bad! This is YOUR blog! xoxoxox

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